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How to Be ‘Very Demure, Very Mindful’ in Your Home

October 8, 2024
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By 
Hannah Haber

You might have encountered the ‘very demure, very mindful’ trend all over social media platforms these days. It’s not easy to escape when everyone seems to have their own forthright or ironic interpretation of this phrase. While this is mostly displayed through an individual’s behavior and aesthetics, did you know that this phenomenon can also be showcased in interior design? Discover how to embody modesty and thoughtfulness inside your home with demure and mindful design elements. 

A ‘Very Demure, Very Mindful’ Start

A ‘Very Demure, Very Mindful’ Start.
Photo by Sergey Krasyuk

The inception of the ‘very demure, very mindful’ style didn’t come from common design trend inspirations like fashion or music. Instead, it started with content creator Jools Lebron’s TikTok video about how people should properly present themselves at work. This satirical video, with 53 million views, details how she puts on unassuming makeup and dresses with minimal skin exposure. At its core, it emphasizes professionalism through appropriate attire and modest manners. 

If you think of it, the gist of the video seems unrelated to interior design. There isn’t a clear correlation between workplace ethics and decorating homes. It’s also quite vague to bring these qualities expected in an office setting to your home. However, the online community has been so creative in riding this craze that it seamlessly transitioned from self-expression to home decor.

Some netizens used the “very demure, very mindful” trend in fashion and beauty, encouraging minimal makeup, skincare, and simple silhouettes. Others adopted it in their lifestyle by promoting meditation and a focus on overall well-being. But its peak interpretations are the parodic, satirical, and absurd applications on the not-so demure and mindful situations. 

They range from a pet’s menacing behavior, challenging norms, or just exaggerating minute considerate actions. Because this trend has been continuously used to poke fun at societal expectations, it instantly becomes a catchphrase for social commentary and empowerment. 

Through these influential gateways, people began experimenting with this idea in their homes. True to Lebron’s intention, it becomes an interior design trend focused on a humble, classic, and unpretentious aesthetic. This includes subdued and neutral colors, timeless and bespoke pieces, and hints of playful design choices. It really is the style that lets your personality while still being demure and mindful of quality and authenticity. 

Designing a Very Demure and Very Mindful Interior

Designing a Very Demure and Very Mindful Interior.
Photo by Philippe Billard

While it’s ideal, it’s not necessary to complete all features of a very demure and very mindful interior. You can try mixing two or three characteristics like incorporating a subtle color scheme with artisanal decor, for example. But as long as you have at least one of these key attributes, you’re on the right track. 

Soft-Toned Space

Bedroom area of an apartment in the Renata Building. Photo by Fran Parente.
Photo by Fran Parente

Demureness is best portrayed when neutral, muted, and pastel colors dominate the space. This is especially true if you lean towards a more minimalist style. These desaturated tones help define clean lines and an uncluttered appearance, which makes the interior more elegant and understated.

They alone can establish a calming ambiance and reserved look in a space. But more importantly, they provide a flexible base to perfectly suit your type of a ‘very demure, very mindful’ home. Think of them as a blank canvas you can customize to your liking. 

You can opt for lighter neutrals to create a brighter vibe or darker tones for added depth. On the other hand, muted colors can ground the space while pastels give off a delicate touch and subtle vibrance. 

Sustainable Furnishings

Bedroom with lanai.
Photographed by Phu Dao

A top-notch way to show mindfulness in your space is by decorating with items that promote sustainability. Start by choosing local, eco-friendly, thrifted, or passed-down pieces over mass produced decor. In this way, you can reduce your environmental footprint and contribution to consumerism. On top of that, you can ensure that each item will be a timeless addition to your space since they’re not collected through impulsive purchases. 

Of course, you can’t leave out bringing indoor plants and stone, wood, fabric, and ceramic materials into your home. Aside from giving an organic and authentic look, these natural materials help in creating a healthier and more relaxing interior. Going sustainable with your furnishings not only reflects your values but showcases a conscious and intentional approach to your living space.

Personalized Touches

Personalized Touches.
Photographed by Ed Simon

To make your space a genuine reflection of your character, add pieces that speak to you the most. These don’t have to be in soft tones or ethically sourced to pass as an element of a ‘very demure, very mindful’ interior. For all their worth, they define how the homeowners present themselves in their home, which aligns with the essence of the trend. Plus, these items prevent your space from looking like a cookie-cutter design, giving it a sense of individuality. 

This can be artwork, collectibles and souvenirs, special gifts, ornaments, or furniture. Just remember to include a few pieces in each area to not overpower the subtle design elements. Besides, this trend is about displaying humility and modesty and not over expression.  

The ‘very demure, very mindful’ interior trend is a great example of how contemporary design is embracing a return to simplicity and authenticity. It’s a redirect to basics and essentials while balancing standards and comfort. Above all, it invites us to slow down and focus on substance to create truly meaningful spaces. 

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